I
am a little annoyed right now driving around the streets of my hometown. It
seems like in every turn I make I run into a construction site. Two major
East-West arteries here are reduced from three lanes down to one. THREE of the
main North-South roads I used to cross those construction sites are having work
done as well. You would think someone
would coordinate this madness. Now the road I use the most often in my getting
around town tells me in January to “Expect Major Delays” until August. I
remember an expressway here being under construction for 4 years. That’s FOUR
YEARS!
But
how I love a nice, smooth, well-planned, and new road! I love it so much I
forget about the pain quickly after the last of the orange cones are removed.
We
always dread the mess in our way but how we love a new kitchen a few months
later. We will pee in buckets for months, wipe drywall dust off our
electronics, cover couches with cloth, and wipe-down windows weekly ALL to have
a newly renovated and restful room to enjoy.
We
must often break the past to have a better future. Not break WITH the past, but
we must break the part of the past that has a hold on us, keeping us from a
better future. That part of our life that says “Hey, we always done it this
way! Why would you want to change anything?” The problem is that the present
keeps slipping into the past and what works today keeps changing into something
that worked yesterday.
It
is, of course, an analogy for our lives and the changes we need to make too. So
many people that I run into have broken down expressways in their lives that
they just cannot strip down, deal with the mess for a while , and renovate into
something new. My mom (or dad, or brother, or sister, or friend, etc.) hurt me
so much that I must hang onto that past even though it is crumbling and full of
potholes. We prefer the broken down street that we know to the mess of the
construction zone. We want the NEW and SHINEY lives but we don’t want to go
through the orange cones and “road closed” barriers to get there.
“How
can I do this?” you ask? It is simple to say, but hard to do. Start with small
steps and work to the bigger ones. Grab a friend who is willing to go on this
journey with you. Get professional help. Rest in God’s presence and not in your
comfortable present. It is time to break
the past.